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Honorifics: Beyond -san
You *never* use -san for yourself! Japanese honorifics are strictly for others, not self-elevation. A big etiquette blunder!
Self-Addressing Is Rude!
Applying honorifics like -san or -sama to your own name or family members is considered boastful and rude in Japanese culture. They're for showing respect to others.
Not Just For Humans
Japanese honorifics aren't solely for people. Businesses, organizations, deities, and even beloved pets can be addressed with titles like -sama or -chan, showing respect or affection.
No Honorifics? It's Close!
While often a sign of disrespect, dropping honorifics for someone you're speaking *to* can actually signify a very close, informal relationship, like with best friends or family.
Sensei's Diverse Roles
Beyond school teachers, "Sensei" is widely used for anyone with professional expertise, including doctors, lawyers, artists, politicians, and even manga creators, signifying mastery.
Unexpected -chan Usage
Though typically for young girls, "-chan" can be used for adult men in specific, very informal contexts. It's usually a term of endearment between close friends or family.
Dono: Not Your Everyday Term
The honorific "-dono," once for samurai lords, is now largely archaic. Using it casually can sound overly dramatic, formal to the point of mockery, or even condescending in modern Japan.